I appreciate you coming to visit and I hope I can help you find that piece you have been missing in your life. I didn't realize how much control I had of my situation and I imagine you may feel the same.
I have been a lot things already in my life. A lot of them at the same time. Every version of me changes as I grow and while it hasn't always been pretty and I haven't always been proud of who I was, it is now my mission to be the best version of me for not only myself but for my family and friends.
This was not always the way. I was coasting and maintaining a series of habits that left me feeling unsatisfied with life, negative, cynical, unmotivated and like somehow I was a victim. I felt like I didn't have to be responsible for my outcome and that it was just going to fix itself. Through some personal choices and development, I have challenged the person I used to be. I have allowed myself to remove an old toxic mindset and to embrace the kinds of things that make me feel good, happy and fulfilled.
Working construction and as a volunteer firefighter, I believed that I had to be tough and fix it myself. True toughness is admitting that we need help and then helping others. It is with this toughness and my vulnerability that I share my story, my thoughts and my experience for that person like who I used to be. The person too good for self-help and personal development. The person that knows everything. The person too stubborn to do things differently than they are used to. The person that needed help.
I can't change the past but I can control what I do right now and so can you!